Cultivating Wise Speech

Donald Rothberg

June 20 - 26, 2023

SLIDING SCALE: $262.65 - $1,096.95

Please keep in mind that program fees do not include compensation for the teacher(s). You will be invited to offer donations to both the teacher(s) and the Center at the end of the retreat.

# NIGHTS: 6

Experience Level / Format: All levels / In Person

  • Bed in Lodge (shared accommodations) – $735.00
  • Furnished Canvas Tent – $735.00
  • Single Heated Cabin (Kuti) – $735.00
  • Single Unheated Cabin (Kuti) – $735.00
  • Tent Platform – $585.00

Integrating meditation practice with our speech and communication is one of the main ways to bring our deeply-held values and our spiritual practice into our daily lives and actions in the world. In this retreat, we will explore how to bring more mindfulness and care to our communication as a vehicle for dialogue (including when there are differences and conflicts) and improved relationships. We will draw from the core meditative practices of the Buddhist tradition, practices to develop relational awareness, and the contemporary discipline of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). Collectively, these practices form a powerful foundation for cultivating insight, awareness, empathy, and skillful speech.

The retreat will integrate periods of silent meditation and sessions of interactive speech practices. It is designed for those who want to bring more attention to speech as a spiritual practice, and for those who have emphasized communication and action and want further grounding in meditation.


Until further notice, registration for our residential programs is restricted to individuals who have or will receive their final Covid-19 vaccination at least two weeks before their arrival on site. We will be restricting total retreat capacity to allow for comfortable, unmasked participation, as well as the option of outdoor dining. Please be prepared to present proof of your vaccination upon request. We also require all registered participants to present negative results from a Covid test performed in the 3 days prior to the start of your retreat AND that you consent to being tested upon your arrival at Southern Dharma. Any rapid antigen test is acceptable for testing, including over-the-counter at-home tests.

Thank you for your understanding as we work to ensure the safety of our staff, teachers, retreatants, and larger community!

Check-in from 4-6pm; Early arrivals may be accommodated – email registrar@southerndharma.org to request.

Departures will take place by 2:00pm on the last day of retreat. Please make sure that you can attend the full program before registering.

For our 2023 retreats, three fee tiers are offered. Please choose the option that best fits your ability to give in this time. Any amount paid above the Base rate is a tax deductible contribution to Southern Dharma Retreat Center. Your confirmation email is your receipt for tax purposes.

We are deeply grateful for your support.

Note that registration fees do not include dana for the teacher(s). In the Buddhist tradition the teachings are offered freely and teachers are not paid for their offerings. They rely on dana contributions from students. Similarly, Southern Dharma keeps registration fees low to ensure the Dharma is accessible to all. Fees cover only a fraction of Southern Dharma’s operating expenses. We appreciate your practice of generosity to continue the dissemination of the Dharma.

Housing and all meals are included in the program fee. We are currently offering six housing options:

  1. Bed in Lodge, shared double room (2nd floor)
  2. Bed in Lodge, dorm with privacy partitions (3rd floor)
  3. Unheated kuti (single cabin, outdoor bathroom)
  4. Heated kuti (single cabin, outdoor bathroom)
  5. Canvas Tent (furnished, outdoor bathroom)
  6. Basic Tent Platform

Please use the appropriate field in the registration process to let us know your preferences in regards to housing, if any, and also specify if you insist on or prefer being housed with others of the same gender. All housing options are priced the same except for the Basic Tent Platform.

Southern Dharma is now offering 50% scholarship awards for BIPOC and Young Adults, in addition to those with financial need. Indicate your interest in a Southern Dharma in-house scholarship during the registration process.

This program is also eligible for Hemera Contemplative Fellowships. Please note that you must apply for the Fellowship prior to registering for any program. Applications are reviewed on a rolling basis.

About the Teacher

Donald Rothberg

Donald Rothberg, Ph.D. (he/him), is a member of the Teachers Council at Spirit Rock Center in California. He has practiced Insight Meditation since 1976 and also received training in Tibetan Dzogchen and Mahamudra practice, in the Hakomi approach to body-based psychotherapy, and in the Somatic Experiencing approach to working with trauma. Formerly on the faculties […]

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