New Year's Retreat: Non-Duality of Sacred Darkness and Sacred Light

John Orr and Eve Decker

December 28, 2024 - January 3, 2025

Date and Time Details: December 28th, 2024 - January 3rd, 2025; Check-in begins at 3pm, Check-out by 2pm

Location: Southern Dharma Retreat Center

Address: 1661 W Rd, Hot Springs, NC 28743, USA

Contact: registrar@southerndharma.org

SLIDING SCALE: $293.55 - $1,127.85

Please keep in mind that program fees do not include compensation for the teacher(s). You will be invited to offer donations to both the teacher(s) and the Center at the end of the retreat.

# NIGHTS: 6

Experience Level / Format: Experience Required / In person

  • Retreat Volunteer - Must have previously sat retreat at Southern Dharma – $0.00
  • Bed in Lodge (shared accommodations) – $765.00
  • Furnished Canvas Tent – $765.00
  • Single Heated Cabin (Kuti) – $765.00
  • Single Unheated Cabin (Kuti) – $765.00
  • Tent Platform – $615.00
Program is fully booked
Program is fully booked

Note: This year’s retreat will be your last chance to welcome in the new year at Southern Dharma led by John Orr as your teacher. We thank him for his many, many years of service in this role. Meanwhile, we are delighted to be welcoming Eve Decker as John’s co-teacher. Eve also co-leads our LGBTQIA+ retreat.

Since ancient times, in the Northern Hemisphere, this period at the end of December has been celebrated by many cultures as the season where there is more darkness and the transition into the new year where there is gradually more light. We all have forces of darkness and light within us. Our fears, negatives and sometimes greedy and grasping minds are part of our human experience as is our joy, love and peace of mind. Our meditation practices and the Dharma gives us the teachings and tools to be able to hold the darkness in the light of our awareness, acceptance, kindness and compassion. Our inner work isn’t to get rid of what we each may deem as being “dark” within ourselves, but to let our innate light and love hold the darkness in Non Dual Awareness. Indeed, Sacred Darkness and Sacred Light are not separate from each other. Just as the light of day isn’t separate from the darkness of night. They morph into and are a part of each other, especially noticeable at dawn and dusk.

Through Vipassana (Insight) Meditation we are able to see what causes suffering for each of us. The practice of Pure Awareness helps us to connect with and relax into the essence of our true nature, which many experience as spaciousness, radiance and love. These two practices along with heart-centered meditations and chanting from various spiritual traditions create a foundation for practice where we are able to reside stable on the middle of the bridge holding simultaneously whatever we experience as darkness and light in our lives.
Within the framework of noble silence, the retreat will also include optional yoga/movement, small group meetings to discuss what we are experiencing and individual meetings as needed.

Important: We request that everyone who attends already have completed one silent weeklong meditation retreat. If you have any question as to the appropriateness of this retreat for you, contact John Orr via email.

Join us for our annual New Year’s Retreat as we welcome in 2025 in silence, community and peace.


We no longer require COVID-19 vaccinations to attend our programs, but do still require testing. We require all registered participants to present negative results from a Covid test performed in the 3 days prior to the start of your retreat AND that you consent to being tested upon your arrival at Southern Dharma. Any rapid antigen test is acceptable for testing, including over-the-counter at-home tests.

Thank you for your understanding as we work to ensure the safety of our staff, teachers, retreatants, and larger community!

NEW IN 2024: First-time retreatants at Southern Dharma must arrive by 5pm ET on the first day of retreat. Check-in begins at 3pm. Returning yogis can check-in between 3 and 6pm.

Departures will take place by 2:00pm on the last day of retreat. Please make sure that you can attend the full program before registering.

All registrations are subject to our new 2024 cancellation policy. All retreatants must review and agree to this policy upon registration.

For our 2024 retreats, three fee tiers are offered. Please choose the option that best fits your ability to give in this time. Any amount paid above the Base rate is a tax deductible contribution to Southern Dharma Retreat Center. Your confirmation email is your receipt for tax purposes.

We are deeply grateful for your support.

Note that registration fees do not include dana for the teacher(s). In the Buddhist tradition the teachings are offered freely and teachers are not paid for their offerings. They rely on dana contributions from students. Similarly, Southern Dharma keeps registration fees low to ensure the Dharma is accessible to all. Fees cover only a fraction of Southern Dharma’s operating expenses. We appreciate your practice of generosity to continue the dissemination of the Dharma.

Housing and all meals are included in the program fee. We are currently offering four housing options for this program:

  1. Bed in Lodge, shared double room (2nd floor)
  2. Bed in Lodge, dorm with privacy partitions (3rd floor)
  3. Heated kuti (single cabin, outdoor bathroom)
  4. Basic Tent Platform (camping with your own gear)

Please use the appropriate field in the registration process to let us know your preferences in regards to housing, if any, and also specify if you insist on or prefer being housed with others of the same gender. All housing options are priced the same except for the Basic Tent Platform.

Southern Dharma offers 50% scholarship awards for BIPOC and Young Adults, in addition to those with financial need. Indicate your interest in a Southern Dharma in-house scholarship during the registration process.

This program is also eligible for Hemera Contemplative Fellowships. Please note that you must apply for the Fellowship prior to registering for any program. Applications are reviewed on a rolling basis.

About the Teacher

John Orr

John Orr (he/him) received Theravada Buddhist ordination and training for a period of eight years while living as a monk in the 1970’s in Thailand and India. His Asian teachers are Ajahn Chah, Ajahn Buddhadasa and S.N. Goenka. Drawing from a range of wisdom teachings he has also practiced in the Dzogchen and Taoist traditions. […]

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Eve Decker

Eve Decker (she/her) began Insight Meditation practice in 1991, and has attended more than 50 silent retreats in the western Vipassana tradition of Buddhism ranging in length from 8-90 days. She is a graduate of University of California, Berkeley; the Path of Engagement (social justice and spiritual practice training); and Community Dharma Leader training at […]

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